Playing hard to get

Playing hard to get

Always appear to be busy, even when you aren’t. Lie or fake it if you have to. If you pick up the phone when a woman calls you and answer the question “What are you doing?” with “Nothing” then you’ve just made a huge (but very common) mistake. When you always seem to be busy you are displaying to others that you are an interesting person with an exciting life, the type of life that a woman would like to be involved in. On the other hand, when you never seem to be doing much you will be viewed as a boring person. If you are trying to be attractive to women, boring will just not make the cut, enough said.

Always make it obvious that you are attracted to her, but never let her know how much you really like her. Even if you are madly in love with her and can’t seem to think about anything else, always make her believe that you like her ten times less than you actually do.

Never initiate anything that has to do with a commitment. If you want her to be your girlfriend wait until she brings the subject up. Remember that you’ve got to control these urges!

On that same note… never tell her that you love her before she tells you first, and when she tells you for the first time don’t let her know that the feeling is mutual right away, wait a few days. This is a very important rule, if you mess this up it will be the beginning of the end, which will come rather quickly.

Unless you are engaged in a long-term relationship, never stay on the phone with a girl you met on adultfrienedfinder for more than five minutes. Many men make this mistake thinking that it is a good thing because they are getting to know the woman, but what they are actually doing is showing the woman that they have nothing better to do than sit around chatting. This is exactly what I was talking about earlier… you must appear to be busy ALL of the time, so when her five minutes are up tell her that you have something to do and need to get off of the phone.

Do not always accept her invitations to hang out. I like to call this the 50/50 rule because you should only accept about half of the time. While the other half you should gently refuse with your excuse being that you have something important to do.

Never act as if her behavior bothers you, even if it does. For example, if she flirts with another guy or if you see her with someone else, act like you could really care less (only if she is not your girlfriend yet, obviously). She is only trying to make you jealous in order to find out how much you really like her, and you are never supposed to let her know that, remember? Plus becoming jealous is a sign of insecurity, which is not a very attractive character trait.

There are many more techniques that you can throw into the mix when you are playing “hard to get”, and most can be found throughout my web site. However, they are not necessary and I suggest that you perfect your usage of the techniques described here first, because these are the most important and effective. And that, as they say, is that.

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